One of our readers, L.B.S, has submitted the following in celebration of her 15th wedding anniversary:
This past week I celebrated my 15th wedding anniversary. Fifteen years ago, I made my husband the happiest man on earth. With us both being devoted members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, we decided to marry in a Mormon temple; the House of the Lord. With it came the promise that our continued devotion to each other and to living the gospel of Jesus Christ would bring the blessing of eternal companionship—a partnership, a marriage, a family– not just for the here and now and ‘til death do us part, but for, well, forever. I won’t say that I love him even more today than I did 15 years ago. I don’t even know what that means. I mean for me, if I love someone enough to commit to forever, how much more love can there be? But I will say I’ve never stopped.
Here are 15 things I love about my husband.
1. Early on in our marriage he volunteered to be the designated fridge-cleaner-outer, and he’s still doing it.
2. I can always count on him to make a corny joke. And he loves it when I roll my eyes.
3. He often can’t remember things I’ve told him 5 minutes before, but he recalls our courtship in vivid details even I had forgotten.
4. He takes care of all the maintenance on my car and sometimes even makes a special trip to make sure the tank is full, not because he thinks I’m incapable or that it’s his manly/husbandly duty, but just so I won’t have to bother with it.
5. I always know when I’ve “caught” him doing something because he has a guilty smile/chuckle that gives him away every time. He knows that I know, and he still smiles.
6. He always compliments me and tells me I’m beautiful, even when I feel (and, let’s be honest, look) worked over.
7. He’s very loyal. When I’m upset, he always takes my side—sometimes even when I’m upset with him.
8. He still writes me love notes and makes me mix CDs, often pointing out the lyrics of special significance.
9. He is careful with money (our finances are great), but he is not a tightwad, and if he’s ever been worried about my spending habits, he’s never let on to me. We have never had an argument over money.
10. Whenever he needs to go out of town, our kids are very upset and make a BIG deal over his homecoming. That says a lot about him as a father.
11. He always asks my opinion.
12. He sends me links and things that he thinks will make good blogging material.
13. He would rather spend time with me than hang out with the guys, but doesn’t mind giving me a girl’s night out. (Or at least he’s very good at pretending.)
14. He is quick to reassure me when I doubt myself, quick to recognize my accomplishments (even if it’s just that I’ve managed to get the dishes done that day), and always without my feeling patronized our doubting his sincerity.
15. He has a special appreciation for my particular flavor of crazy. He must, after all, he’s still here!
Happy anniversary, sweetheart! I still love you!
One of our readers, L.B.S, has submitted the following in celebration of her 15th wedding anniversary:
This past week I celebrated my 15th wedding anniversary. Fifteen years ago, I made my husband the happiest man on earth. With us both being devoted members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, we decided to marry in a Mormon temple; the House of the Lord. With it came the promise that our continued devotion to each other and to living the gospel of Jesus Christ would bring the blessing of eternal companionship—a partnership, a marriage, a family– not just for the here and now and ‘til death do us part, but for, well, forever. I won’t say that I love him even more today than I did 15 years ago. I don’t even know what that means. I mean for me, if I love someone enough to commit to forever, how much more love can there be? But I will say I’ve never stopped.
Here are 15 things I love about my husband.
1. Early on in our marriage he volunteered to be the designated fridge-cleaner-outer, and he’s still doing it.
2. I can always count on him to make a corny joke. And he loves it when I roll my eyes.
3. He often can’t remember things I’ve told him 5 minutes before, but he recalls our courtship in vivid details even I had forgotten.
4. He takes care of all the maintenance on my car and sometimes even makes a special trip to make sure the tank is full, not because he thinks I’m incapable or that it’s his manly/husbandly duty, but just so I won’t have to bother with it.
5. I always know when I’ve “caught” him doing something because he has a guilty smile/chuckle that gives him away every time. He knows that I know, and he still smiles.
6. He always compliments me and tells me I’m beautiful, even when I feel (and, let’s be honest, look) worked over.
7. He’s very loyal. When I’m upset, he always takes my side—sometimes even when I’m upset with him.
8. He still writes me love notes and makes me mix CDs, often pointing out the lyrics of special significance.
9. He is careful with money (our finances are great), but he is not a tightwad, and if he’s ever been worried about my spending habits, he’s never let on to me. We have never had an argument over money.
10. Whenever he needs to go out of town, our kids are very upset and make a BIG deal over his homecoming. That says a lot about him as a father.
11. He always asks my opinion.
12. He sends me links and things that he thinks will make good blogging material.
13. He would rather spend time with me than hang out with the guys, but doesn’t mind giving me a girl’s night out. (Or at least he’s very good at pretending.)
14. He is quick to reassure me when I doubt myself, quick to recognize my accomplishments (even if it’s just that I’ve managed to get the dishes done that day), and always without my feeling patronized our doubting his sincerity.
15. He has a special appreciation for my particular flavor of crazy. He must, after all, he’s still here!
Happy anniversary, sweetheart! I still love you!
I love this little look into your marriage LBS. I think what impressed me the most was the title. Fifteen going on forever.
Do you remember kids writing on their notebooks or digging into the trunks of trees. J.E + A.W. 4 ever? It is so natural for humans to want to be together forever.
I love the doctrine of eternal marriage. It makes me love my husband better and I never want to grow apart. I think knowing we have committed to forever focuses us on similar goals and directions in life.
Thank you for this post, it made me happy.